It is no exaggeration to say that the world is made up of hypocrisy.

This is just an example, but it is the true intention and tatemae peculiar to the Japanese. It is because there is a true intention and a tatemae that everything is hypocrisy.

This is unconsciously imprinted in the process of growing up, so it is not only you who are hypocrites, but everyone around you is a hypocrite as well.

Hypocrites are everyone in this country of Japan.

Also, hypocrite means doing false good deeds, right?

But isn’t that just being human?

There really are no real good people. Nowhere.

Because evil and good are repeatedly reversed, depending on how you look at it, there is no real good.

Is everything you do and say in your heart for others?

Can you say that you don’t expect a single micron of expectation or reward?

That’s the thing, it’s impossible to be truly good, as long as you are human.

There is no absolute good.

Because the heart is a mixture of darkness and light.

If everything were light, we would feel neither joy nor sadness.

Can you really call that living?

What is the darkness?

Because it is the reason we feel people’s pain, empathize with them, and develop civilization.

If there were no darkness, we would not be human.

Even if it were all light, it would be a boring, dull life.

That is why I think it is important to forgive people for themselves, because there is no real good.

Forgiveness means to reflect on oneself and at the same time to take measures for the next time.

Everyone makes mistakes. But if there is no follow-up at that time, it becomes a big problem.

Apologizing is an act of self-satisfaction in itself, but I think it is because this act of self-satisfaction leads to forgiveness for both the other person and yourself.

Forgiveness is not easy.

It is because we are dependent on the past.

I understand this because I am one of those who depend on the past.

Maybe that is why I understand the importance of forgiveness.

Forgiving yourself = working on yourself

Working on yourself = Working on others

To work on others = To work on the world

I think it is connected to the following.

To work hard means to forgive.

To forgive means to let go of the attachment to the past that is in your hand.

It means facing oneself until one is able to let go again and again. And time will tell.

And to be able to let go means to learn to compromise.

Compromise is not about giving up, it’s about finding just right. As my previous post says, it’s about finding just the right distance.

Compromise means coming to terms with yourself.

Coming to terms means forgiving yourself for the blunder of what you have done or what you have done.

It’s like saying, I decided this was the best solution for me at that time, and I don’t give myself full responsibility for it.

I think it’s about trusting your past self at that time.

But if you believe him and he doesn’t reflect on it, that is not the same as forgiveness.

In the past, this was not good enough, but this was the best solution for me. It is about analyzing the past.

Analysis is important.

To be able to analyze, you have to verbalize it. In your own words, what did you think at that time? What did you do as a result?

Once you know that, the rest is easy.

You just have to face those feelings and think about how to deal with them. It is important to learn how to deal with them appropriately.

What you don’t know you don’t know. It is important to verbalize what you don’t understand. It is to verbalize what you don’t understand.

Forgive yourself, forgive others, forgive the world.

The world is hypocritical, but there is love.

I guess that’s how I feel.

So much to say today, lol.

And this is all written with my hypocrisy, so not everything is right!

And it’s just what I felt and thought, so I don’t think you should be too influenced by it! LOL!